New baby? Don't freak out. Just remember that billions of men have successfully done this with nearly zero training.
So, you just had a kid? Well, played a small part in having a kid, at least. But, now that they are out in the world, the responsibility of caring for your little one is much more “on you” than its been for the last 9 months.
Here are some basic tips for caring for your new baby, and your relationship! Remember, your baby will, most likely, only be as happy and relaxed as your home. Self-care and partner care are near the top of this list, so don’t skimp on what makes you happy and fulfilled. The positive feedback loop will make life easier for you and your kids.
Be involved in the care of your baby, including feeding, diapering, and soothing. Baby care isn’t just mom’s job, and connecting with your child shouldn’t only be it’s mom’s benefit!
Communicate with your partner and make sure to support each other emotionally. Can’t say this enough — your baby is a product of your relationship. The soil in which your new flower is growing. Keep it fresh and filled with nutrients for the best results ;)
Take time for self-care and make sure to maintain your own physical and mental health. Related, but not exactly to relationship care, is SELF care. Sanity comes from within. Keep yours intact with great effort. Its extremely worth the work.
Be patient and flexible, as being a new parent can be challenging and unpredictable. Not every moment is peaceful. Most aren’t tbh. Don’t get frustrated! Take a minute, relax, re-engage when ready.
Make sure to bond with your baby through activities such as playing, reading, and singing. This is the fun part, for both you and your baby. Soak it in! These moments go by like a flash of light in the long run. Make them count.
Seek out support from other fathers or parenting groups if needed. Other dads have been there before. Ask them for advice, they will almost surely be ready and willing to give it to you.
Take turns with your partner in caring for the baby and allow each other time to rest and recharge. If you are raising your baby with a partner, share the work with them equitably. You will both be better off for it! Not to mention a baby that will grow up knowing both parents are engaged in its life and care.
Show your partner and baby love and affection regularly. Snuggles recharge batteries and enforce love between family members. Snuggle with your kids until they can literally tell you they would rather not. Because after than its likely over. (See: soak it in!)
If you have any ideas or tips for new dads to add to these core 8, let us hear it in the comments!
Beau Industries Team